Most men believe that it is the man who should run after women. However, those guys who are successful with women do not share this point of view.
That's why they're always at parties with the coolest girls themselves. What would your life be like if, instead of courting girls, they ran after you? Here are 10 tips to help you figure it out.
1. Use the "reverse approach"
The “reverse approach” is when you say and do the opposite of what you say and do to pick up a girl. However, this approach assumes that the woman already knows and trusts you.
Your goal is NOT to try to be nice and nice in order to win her approval. How to do it?
One way is to use sarcastic comments that are the opposite of what the girl wants to hear.
Or your answer to her question should be the opposite of what she expected to hear, and you need to do this in a tone that clearly implies that you are just laughing at her. If you do this, then a reverse polarity bond is formed, implying that it is she who will haunt you.
2. Read between the lines
If you are talking to a girl on the phone and she says that she is dating someone else, then you must understand that she is saying this more for herself than for you.
Perhaps she just accidentally agreed to go on a date with another guy, but she still feels sympathy for you, and she needs to tell you this in order to convince herself that she is not free.
If you find yourself in this situation, then tell her something like: “Yes? Congratulations. Or do you think that I tried to run after you?". She will not know what to answer you, and will begin to understand that you are an independent guy who does not need any woman, and this is exactly the type of man that girls LIKE.
Don't be surprised if she calls you back within a week and says she'd like to go somewhere with you because she doesn't want to see the guy she dated last week anymore.
3. Go beyond "sexual relations"
When I first began to study the question "How to be successful with women", the idea of "sleeping with a girl" seemed to me much more interesting than now, because I believed that if I could learn how to seduce a girl, I would succeed with any woman.
Well what can I say now. A lot of guys who are great at seducing women can't find the "right" woman they want to spend their life with.
And when they do find one, they can't keep it. I think that it is much more interesting and useful to understand how and why a woman is attracted to a man, and why she stays with him. With this knowledge, you can find "your" woman and keep her close.
There is nothing wrong with being seduced, but it is only a piece of the puzzle that alone cannot make you happy and successful in life.
4. Stop courting, start winning her attention
There are two main ways a man meets a woman: courtship and attraction. If you base your relationship on ATTRACTION, then the approach is very different from courtship.
If you are courting a woman, her first reaction will be to "run away", and this turns you on even more, and you continue to run after her.
And if a girl likes you, then her natural reaction is to want to pursue you. This subtle, barely perceptible difference is the whole diversity of the world.
5. Dominate
Courtship is based on your ACTIONS, OFFERS and what you GIVE, which basically means gifts, dinners, flowers, compliments, etc.
Attraction includes ways of communicating, traits of your character and masculinity. Courtship involves the strategy of "become a friend", you have to be very nice in order to please her.
Attraction doesn't mean all of that, because a woman doesn't have to like you to be attracted to you.
Courtship is a challenge, and attraction is a challenge. Courtship means being a suitor, submissive and weak; attraction is leadership, power, and dominance.
Stop courting, start getting her attention, and you won't BELIEVE how it will change your relationship with a woman.
6. Be strong
Women change their opinion about a man if he sees that he is behaving confidently. Therefore, you need to show the girl that you are one of those rare guys.
And if she told you that another guy is interested in her, or that she is busy tonight, then you should understand that she is just testing you.
Answer simply: “Come on, I know that this is not true,” and she will understand everything. And more importantly, she will understand that she is dealing with a real man.
7. Stay on course
Most men immediately focus themselves on courting a woman and finding her location. She leads, you follow.
In fact, she doesn't even lead. It's just that a man is trying to convince her of this with the help of appropriate questions and gestures.
This is a terrible mistake that will lead nowhere. Instead, stick to your course, even if it's not being "led". Let her change her behavior, body language, mood according to your behavior.
Never let her get ahead. Show her that you are from the category of men who are used to being the captain of their ship, and this will undoubtedly attract her.
8. Never stop halfway and explain your actions.
If you did something that seemed to upset the woman, don't try to apologize or do anything to cheer her up.
You don't have to feel or act like a guilty person or show her that you're uncomfortable with what you've done. Just act like nothing happened.
Move on to the next topic or story. If she starts to complain, then just say that it was just a joke, and continue your story further.
If you try to stop and start apologizing for what you said, you may think it's over for you. If you say something and she doesn't like it, then that's HER problem.
Women often complain, just to see how you will behave in such a situation. And if you do not succumb to this, her respect and attraction to you will increase significantly.
9. Show that you are a normal man
There are a lot of different idiots, perverts and psychologically unstable guys in our world, so it is very important to demonstrate with all your behavior that you do not belong to such subjects.
Tell the girl you're busy and hang up without even asking her to come on a date. Make fun of the stupid behavior of other guys who act like weaklings. If she calls you but doesn't leave a message on your answering machine, tell her that she's stalking you and that normal people leave messages.
Such actions will show her that you are not one of those freaks who desperately want to get into her panties. And she will understand that you are better than those other guys with whom she usually dates.
10. Use her own games on her
We all know that women love to "play different games". And when you turn the situation around and start playing her own game with her, this shifts the focus in your favor.
One of my favorite games is “You are a badly behaved child and I don't like it”. I don't think this needs an explanation.
Others use the "Let's see who's more interested" and "I'm hard to win and you'll come running to me" method. Use these methods and you will soon realize that she is aware that she cannot resist you as a person.
Dating & Pickup
How to seduce a married woman
Every man on Earth wants and desires to know more about women. We will not hide the fact that often such interest is associated with sex. And, as a rule, the best sex happens to experienced women.
Therefore, consider the question: How to seduce a woman - especially if she is already married. If you're really thinking about how to date married women, you should read the advice on this.
Any woman can be seduced, except for those who are in a happy marriage. But, unfortunately, there are not many of them. Women love attention, they always want to be in the center of events. They love to hear compliments about their beauty and can succumb to the charms of a strong man. They want to feel like the queens of the ball, the most needed and valuable. They answer the call of adventure with great determination.
Many men mistakenly think that it is easier to date free girls than married women, this is not entirely true. The main advantage is that married women, as a rule, do not require any responsible steps. Such relationships are needed only for entertainment, and if so, there is no need to make plans for the future. Even after marriage, a woman instinctively looks for a strong and confident man. And if she turns out to be like that next to her, she can change her mind about the inviolability of marriage.
Neither men nor women are perfect. But with age, a man loses his passion for hunting girls. But in a woman, this desire, on the contrary, wakes up and becomes very strong. Why would a married woman want to date another man? Boredom!
Where to look for married women
Any woman at home or at work is looking for a “spark of passion” in the eyes of a man. Let's not argue with the fact that over time, husbands cool down and take their wives for granted. Therefore, in order to seduce such a woman, you need to make her clearly understand how you differ from her husband. You should only be interested in romantic relationships and wild sex. Such women practically do not need anything else.
The best place to find such women is in their workplaces, bars and clubs. Also dating sites. And there it will be easy to find out their desires and preferences.
In the bar, look out for a lonely woman who sits alone and looks hopefully into every corner. She tries to attract the attention of some man so that he can brighten up her evening. Never hesitate to approach a beautiful girl in her 30s. Surely, she will not refuse your offer to join the company. They want to get male attention and hear compliments in their address.
Also, do not write off the account of women who came to relax with a cheerful company. Any woman will be happy if a handsome man comes up to her and invites her to dance. And the positive feedback from her friends will only increase your chances.
A man should not be ashamed of such a relationship. Since it is clear enough that they do not last long, and the end result is clear and so. The decision to sleep will come entirely from the woman. If she doesn't want to, you can't get her to do it.
How to act?
Oddly enough, but such a relationship must be started very slowly. If you want to enjoy such a relationship, then you should start with an invitation to a cafe or bar. You can invite to yourself, but still it is better not to rush into it.
You should not start such a relationship through phone calls and sms. You definitely don't want problems with her husband, and these methods can be quite explicit. Think first of all about safety and comfort.
On the first date, you need to pay attention to her beauty, her eyes, hair and clothes. Women always want to hear a good compliment. But they must be real. If you start to exaggerate, a woman will recognize your lie.
You need to make the girl laugh, more spontaneity, more flirting and ease of communication. But you also need to be able to listen to it. Never talk about yourself on the first date, all attention should be directed to her. Find out her interests, problems and desires. You can not argue with her, you can not condemn her for any actions. Be soft and flexible in your communication.
You need to dress appropriately for where you are going. You don't have to dress too extravagantly or act like a cowboy. If a woman goes to a bar, it means she wants to meet someone from the bar. If he goes to the theater, then with someone typical of the theater. You have to be courteous and courteous. Just like they show in movies about heartthrobs. Good looks, wit and a keen eye.
But the most important thing is that you need to convince her that she is more interested in you than you are in her. You need to talk about third-party things and interests. Avoid kissing and sex on the first date. You need to show yourself as a confident man who talks freely with women, and does not stare at their breasts.
These tips are taken from real life, so you can be sure of them. It really is.
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- girl's whims must be endured
- sex is possible only after a couple of months
- a simple guy can't get a cool girl
- etc
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Hello man, in this article you will learn how to divorce a girl. Although, let's start with the fact that the concept of "Dilute" in itself is initially incorrect. Girls want sex just as much as men, and maybe even more than we do. This is a mutual thing. Therefore, most likely this word should be replaced by and, maybe.
The girl herself is waiting - well, who will be the one, she just cannot give to anyone, but she really wants this, so you need to show her that you are the most worthy. True, contrary to popular belief, this is not done with the help of flowers, gifts and courtship, but in a completely different (much easier) way, we teach this on our own. And also, on this topic I have, which you can see right now by clicking. In these videos, I cover this topic in more detail. I don’t really like writing on the blog, I’m still a lazy person, it’s easier for me to speak on camera;). So, I'm better off not reading.
The most important principle here is this - remember it - There are no available and inaccessible women. There are different men. That is, in fact, everything depends only on you, in general in life and in particular. There is no such concept - "Given - did not give", there is a concept - "Took - did not take."
- I'm busy tomorrow
- Okay, how busy are you?
- I'm going to a birthday party and I'll be free late
- What time approximately?
- Don't know
- What time and where will you be?
- Well, ten o'clock
- I will pick you up and we will literally drink tea for half an hour
- I'm tired and I need to go home
- It will be literally half an hour and then I will walk you home
- Well, actually, a friend should take me
- Your friend is not going anywhere, and cool guys are not lying on the road, he will take you next time
Etc. Be more persistent. If she can’t that day, well, she can’t, then agree on another. You can read even more about persistence in , which you can receive in your e-mail right now, !
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How to divorce a girl on the street. To do this, of course, you need to approach her. If we are talking about a phone number, then the scheme is as follows:
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By the way, this is such a joke that in fact, in order to please a girl (and in order to divorce her, she must definitely like her), you do not always need to say something good. Here's a story that happened to me recently. My student approached the girl, she was very well-groomed and beautiful, but with a slight nuance. He somehow spoke crookedly, because he had just begun to study, and I decided to approach her myself. She was very young in her 20s.
The nuance is that her eyebrows were a little larger and thicker than those of the girls in the main mass, not that completely pipets, just a little thicker than usual. I’m already used to the fact that girls now make their eyebrows rather thin, and then for some reason my eyes rushed straight at them, but this in no way spoiled the overall picture.
I immediately told her jokingly that she had very unusual eyebrows and that she was Miss Brezhnev 2014. She reacted surprisingly positively, and a conversation began, during which we touched on the topic of eyebrows several more times. As a result, we walked a little with her, but I was in a hurry back to my student and suggested that she write down my number herself, if she wants, let her call, I really didn’t care, although she is more than sexy, I just don’t have time to meet her at all.
On the same evening, she herself wrote me an SMS with an offer to meet, we met, I drove into a cafe where she sat for fifteen minutes. The next evening she texted again and we saw each other in such a way that it ended up having sex in my car. Therefore, it works well when you tell girls things they might not like.
But look how to divorce a girl by SMS
In general, the SMS method for such a thing is not very good, because in order to get close to a girl, you need to excite her, and for this you need to meet her live. For a girl to want to make love with you, she must be as excited as you are. That is, her brain will always tell her herself - “It’s still early, we don’t know each other much, I shouldn’t do this,” and in order to turn it off, it is necessary to influence her body, that is, to excite her.
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In this article, we talked about how to quickly divorce a girl for sex. , what is needed for this. Once again I remind you that everything depends only on you, so do not be afraid to act. It is better to do and repent than not to do and toil.
Divorcing a girl for sex is the first goal of many young people who meet girls. We do not argue that there is such a type of girls who will make anyone crawl into bed. But, you must admit, it is much more pleasant to divorce a girl for sex on your own in terms of increasing your self-esteem. Do you want to try your hand at this business, but don't know where to start? We will tell you five effective ways to help persuade a girl to have sex in the shortest possible time.
Method one: play with the girl according to the “predator-prey” model. Behave as confidently and courageously as possible, do not take your eyes off the girl and radiate your desire with your whole body. For this method, solitude will be especially effective, since only tete-a-tete you can bombard the girl with compliments and move on to unobtrusive touches, which, at the first signal for consent, should move on to meaningful touches. Our trainings will teach you the art of touch in the best possible way, thanks to which your chances of success can increase several times.
Method two: Start a conversation about sex. The correct set of phrases, presented in an unobtrusive form, will help push the girl to thoughts about intimacy. Divorcing a girl for sex is easier if you managed to fill her head with thoughts of physical intimacy. For example, you can invite her home and turn on a film with sex scenes, during which you can subtly turn the conversation to the topic of sex without revealing your intentions.
Method three: the help of alcohol. The most common way that both inexperienced guys and professional seducers do not disdain. Most girls, after a glass or two of wine or any other alcoholic drink, feel clouded in their minds, and some even lose control of themselves. Girls under the influence of alcohol become much more relaxed and reliable, and the moral framework they once set almost completely loses its meaning.
Method four: persuasion. If you have passed one of the trainings we offer on seduction, or you just know how to speak beautifully, then it doesn’t cost you anything to start a philosophical conversation with a girl. With the right influence on a girl, you can convince her that sex is an important part of life that she needs so much. Start the topic of sex, which will be filled with metaphors, beautiful epithets and comparisons as much as possible. In this method, the most important thing is sincerity and self-confidence, as well as maximum eye contact with the girl and the ability to talk beautifully.
Method five: seize the moment. If you know how to be attractive and act like a real sex symbol, then you can easily persuade a girl to have sex on the first date. In order to use this method, it is necessary to be as attractive as possible to girls in all aspects: from your prospects in society to a neat appearance and clothes that correspond to the latest men's fashion.
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Some believe that it is impossible to convince a woman, she can only be persuaded. Well, there is some truth in this. For example, chatting a woman for sex is very possible. But only if she's not your wife. But if she is your wife, cohabitant, lover, or just an evil work colleague, then everything is much more complicated. Tested by experience: convincing / persuading these clever beauties of anything is empty chores.
And now, reader, remember how your friend of life behaves in this regard. Does she often try to convince you, persuade you, does she turn to you for advice, agreement, consensus, with an explicit, open request or petition? Except for orders/commands like “go to the store, take out the trash, vacuum the carpets, peel the potatoes, lay out the salary”, etc., then this almost never happens. Why do you think?
But because at home you are no prophet. It’s at work that you’re cool, important, you build everyone and nothing will be sanctified without you, but at home, excuse me, plankton, puppet, shit, and there’s no way to call you. 😦
Second. Why consult with you! What are you, a friend? Wives consult not with husbands, but with more worthy subjects: girlfriends, mother, psychoanalyst, "clairvoyant" or study the wise instructions of some nerd on the net. They are ready to believe in any nonsense, but not to their husband. 😦
Well, and the third: "A woman is always right." (This point you should know yourself)
But even if the unbelievable happens and she asks your opinion on a particular matter, she will never follow it.
However, there are ways to deal with such outrages!
To do this, you need to give a woman freedom of action. Within acceptable financial limits, of course. Pretty soon, she will begin to contradict herself, and from such an unbearable mental conflict for herself, she will be forced to silently agree with you. (A woman always agrees in silence. In order not to humiliate herself. But she protests at the top of her voice!)
However, for many women, this is not enough. They stupidly ignore all sorts of collisions and try to realize in turn all possible options until they collapse from fatigue. In this case, you will have to wait for some more time, until she is convinced that it does not work out the way she wants. And then she will have to agree with you. Again silently. Don't just try to reproach her and make comments that show your superiority, like "You see, I was right!" A gentleman will never poke a lady's face into the dirt of a cake. Otherwise, a lady can say everything she thinks about a gentleman, or even tear off his head!
But there is an even more difficult case - pathologically stubborn and stupid aunts. Even after trying all the options, she does not choose any, because she does not like any of them. But still disagree with you. On the contrary, he accuses you of hellish deceit, that you deliberately set it all up! And to make fun of her... Your actions? Again, no comments! Do not waste your energy, but it is better to immediately hide somewhere far away. And don't forget that women are always re-thinking about it tomorrow. A new day will come - she will have new songs.
And finally, the most important advice. Think about it, do you really need to convince her? And what, her consent / disagreement limits you in some way? Don't worry and keep it simple. Even I.A. Krylov in his fable "The Cat and the Cook" taught us: "And Vaska listens and eats." Take an example from this mustachioed-striped. 🙂 Listen to a woman, and do your own thing.
Total!
To persuade a woman is not at all easier than to convince. And therefore,
You can only convince a woman by cunning. (Tetcorax)
But even after that, you can not relax. Since she will still try to redo everything in her own way, and take revenge on you. Do not give her a chance and praise more: “You are so smart, you are so beautiful. You are always right. What would I do without you”, etc. Well, do you understand, dude? Persuading a woman is like charming a snake. Learn this from a young age.
As for other people, there is absolutely no point in convincing them of something. The smart one will understand the first time, the fool - when he gets tired. Don't waste time on them.
Why so read in the article
Read about why and how wives take revenge on their husbands in the article of the same name.
3. How to convince a woman to go to work, have sex, start saving, apologize, leave her lover, tell the truth, etc., etc. read on Tetcorax's blog. And, completely, absolutely and completely free!
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Reader, do not be lazy, tell me how you personally convince women. Share your secrets.