"Pope, be with us!"

Time spending: Second Quarter (December - February).

Form of: Children's and parent living room.

Goal: Increase the success of the social development of the child on the basis of positive activity and interaction with the fathers.

Tasks:increase the attendance of parental assembly dips and their interest in raising their own children; Increase the interest and initiative of dads in the preparation and organization of events "Children's and Parent Living Room".

Plan:

1. Introduction.
2. Discussion and scheduled events.
3. The final stage. Decision-making.

Course of events.

1. Preparatory stage.

1. Questioning of fathers (Appendix A).
2. Interview of the dad (with a child, mom) and recording of the responses to the tape recorder (Appendix B).
3. Heading with children of poems, songs, proverbs, sayings about dad.
4. Registration of the exhibition of children's drawings on the topic "My Dad"; Preparation of pictures for the contest "What would this mean?"; products to the contest "Smak in our opinion"; Individual invitations to the meeting (each dad must be invited personally).
5. Discussion and registration of gratitude dads from mothers for helping the housework,

For the lack of harmful habits (sprieval, smoking in the room), etc.

6. Preparation of the Music Description.

2. Organizational stage.

The meeting takes place in the room of the group or the musical hall.

Parents come to the group, consider the exhibition of children's work, sit down in their place;

Sounds of calm music.

Opening part.

Song sounds "Dad can, dad can anything ..." The leading meeting welcomes the parents, thanks for the presence.

Leading: Hello, dear dads! We are glad to see you today in the walls of our pre-school institution. We are very pleased that in your busy schedule there was a time to communicate with us - teachers and children.

Teacher reports the topic, purpose and program of the meeting.

Leading: Before we begin our meeting, let's first get to know each other closer, so that it is easier for us to discuss more difficult questions. Let's play!

Playing names.

Participants in turn call their name and give themselves the characteristic on the first letter of their name or, by agreement, for any letter, for all letters. For example, Olga is a dazzling smile, easy to rise, vegetarian, blue-eyed.

The main stage of the meeting.

1. Mini-discussion.

Child (reads a poem).

Gently hug you for the neck:

Happiness your daughter will be born!

I will do more than I even know how

If only you just could be proud of me.

Leading: These wonderful words each baby is ready to devote to his father. How many interesting things can be engaged in with dad, as much new can be found from him,

What fun games can be played! Preparing for today's meeting, we took an interview with your children in which they asked them to answer questions about their fathers. And now we offer to watch a video of this interview.

(It should be remembered that the teacher is obliged to observe the pedagogical ethics. If the child negatively refers to his father and, answering the question, reported this, then this response of the child cannot be made to a general discussion. It is necessary to be tactfully and individually discuss this problem with the Father.)

Leading: Here are some wonderful dads from our children! How much wonder they know and know how! But indeed, the role of the father in the family is very difficult to overestimate.

Message about the role of the father in the family and his role in the upbringing of children.

An important impact on the development of the child is the Father. Studying the importance of a man in a modern family, specialists allocate a number of main positions:

• The main role-playing position of a man as a spouse is to be quite professionally prepared to ensure itself, wives, children and other family members if they are.
• As a husband's husband today, more than before, is responsible for married comfort. Spiritual communication between spouses, creative and diverse, contributes to the harmonious development of the identity of both partners.
• A man takes the most active part in the household activities of the family and on a par with his wife, other members of the family performs the entire amount of homework.
• As a parent, he is responsible for raising children. He needs to own the skills of psychological and pedagogical impact, be highly agreed, competent, persistent and democratic.

All marked positions are closely interrelated between themselves and show an impact on the development of the child (directly and indirectly). Thus, the father in the family gives a certain sample of behavior, is a source of confidence and authority, is the personification of discipline and order.

The social and spiritual needs of the child are allocated to the satisfaction of which the Father has a serious influence: the need for protection and love, in authority, in a sample of male behavior.

Studies also revealed the relationship between the formation of certain abilities of children (mathematical) and the presence in the family of the Father.

According to the famous psychologist E. Fromma, the father represents the child the world of thought, created by human labor things, law and order, discipline, travel and adventure. The child is all the time, at all stages of development, a father is needed, but it is especially beginning to need fatherly love, in his power and leadership after six years. At an early age, the connection of the child with the mother appears deeper, and then, in preschool age, the father becomes increasingly important for the correct sexual identification. Children who have grown without a father often have a reduced level of claims. They have a higher level of anxiety and more often there is neurotic nature. The boys from incomplete families are harder to establish contacts with peers, it is harder to master the masculine sex roles and the corresponding style of behavior, they are a cup of other hypertrophies men's behavior, exhibit aggressiveness and rudeness.

Father on the development of the girl has no less influence.

Scientists argue the presence of the need for children in the father or man, its replacement, throughout life. The child, devoid of father's authority, can grow undisciplined, asocial, aggressive with respect to adults and children.

The role of the Father in the preparation of children to family life is great. Its reliability, sensitivity in relation to the mother, grandmother, children, the desire to divide home care with them, make a family life more interesting, happy - all this goes to children. The right example of the Father teaches boys to be real men and subsequently good husbands, fathers, and daughters encourages to compare their friends with his father, to make high demands to young people. A small child frankly calls to his father: look, I'm weak, you need me so much.

The main thing is not to be late! The main thing is to educate from the first days, and in the child the need to spend as much time as possible together. During the games, you, without giving yourself a report, inspire your child a sense of confidence and security. The child goes with these sensations through childhood, a difficult time of adolescence and enters into his youth. And on all life turns, he supports understanding: my dad can everything, everything can.

2. Business game: "What would you talk about?"

Situation: Father leads from a child of a child.

Well how are you? - He asks with warmth in his voice.

Well, the son answers one.

What was for dinner? - Asks father. - What did you do? How did he behave?

Question to parents:

How do you rate this conversation.

Is the Father led to the conversation with the child?

What would you start talking about?

Do you have difficulties in communicating with your kids? What kind?

To reveal the child, you need to conquer his trust. The son (daughter) should (a) himself (a) talk about herself, to open his innermost thoughts and secrets, ask disturbing questions. But this is possible if you go to meet him: on the way from the garden, tell me what you touched in the newspaper read, book.

Speak with a child about everything. Do not think that your child still does not understand anything. The main thing - he will feel that you are frank, contact him, as an adult. Ask more often what new things happened for today? What played? Who did win? You have a friend? He is good? Why? Tell me what is this book? How would you do in my place?

3. Musical pause.

4. Decision of the pedagogical situation.

Leading. Imagine the situation.

Father shouts his son: "Where are all in the snow? Mom just washed the floor ... Return, I say! "

The son was offended. He himself saw the puddles on the pure floor, but it was in a hurry to his parents, he wanted to tell what a snowy woman was blind in the yard.

Has it was necessary to shout so much? (DISCUSSION.)

Possible way out of the situation. One child will understand his mistake if you take him by the hand, silently bring out the kitchen. To smooth down a drop of street moisture. Other need a calm voice to make a remark. Third read in a joking form. For each case, given the individuality of the child, you must choose the appropriate reception, but to exclude rudeness, sharp gestures, an order tone. Otherwise, this will all cause protest and response rudeness. Anton Semenovich Makarenko attached great importance to the authority of the parents, he wrote that it was not forgotten, not anger, not a cry, not a quiet, and a calm, business and serious order - that's what should be in the family. In the upbringing should be a measure. So that the child was calm in kindergarten (school), it is necessary to give him the opportunity to discharge the energy of the house. Father must punish for disobedience, irresponsibility is formed otherwise. But the punishment without repentance does not raise. If the child did not understand his guilt and does not want to redeem her - the punishment will not teach anything, but can angry.

5. "Here it is, my favorite child!"

Dads are invited to give epithets to their children.

And now let's talk about our children in more detail. Fathers are invited to prepare a story about his child. Questions may be offered to help.

Questions for the preparation of the presentation of the story about the child:

1. Does your child grow happy and healthy?

2. Is he often laughing? What is mixed?

3. How often does he get upset? What is upsetting it most?

4. Does your child love intellectual work? Does he like to guess riddles, solve rebuses and puzzles?

5. How many questions ask your child?

6. How does your child come if something does not work?

7. What can he do very well?

8. What he does not know how to do, and in your opinion, would have to be able at his age?

9. Are there any cases when your child tells a lie?

10. What does your child like to play? In the game, the child reflects what he sees in life, or is heers of fairy tales, cartoons, films for adults attract him?

11. What do you think your child loves you? What gives you the reason to think so?

Leading: Yes, children really grow very good. But the child's education is not an easy business. And how often we have to deal with unforeseen situations, insoluble, it would seem tasks. But ask any baby, and he will surely answer you that someone who, and dad, exactly everything will be able to overcome.

Dear Pope! Let's bring up our children not only with words, gifts, new toys, how much example, worthy imitation.

Remember

Leading: Pride for her fathers is a moral foundation for the take-off of the child's personality.

Leading: Our boys were asked another question: when you grow, how will you be a dad? (Consider options for children answers.)

Children read the poem "How I will become an adult»

When I put an adult

I'll let my son.

And jump on my back.

Lie on the sofa

On the wall draw ...

Beetle storing in your pocket

Persons do not wash.

Shout, running on the puddles,

Heat the legs into the chair.

Don't sleep and not lunch

Ride riding a cat

Twist in the clock spring

Drink water from under the tap.

I'll let my son,

When I put an adult.

Conducted the text "What are we, men?"

6. Final stage of the meeting.

Leading: Well, now it came to the end our meeting. We thank you for the fact that you paid us attention. Approximate decision of the parent meeting:

1. Take an active part in the upbringing of your children.
2. Continue the cooperation of parents and teachers on the issue of upbringing, learning and developing children.
3. Organize and spend together with children next events excursions, sports games. And finish the meetings with such words: "Humanity is good men needed even more than the great." (D.Zh. Rodari).

Appendix 1.

Questionnaire for dad!

Dear Pope!

In order to cooperate with the pre-school institution for the upbringing and development of your children, please answer the following questions:

1. Choose, please, those images that are close to you more (emphasize)

• Wise father;
• Head of the family;
• Father-feed;
• Present Father;
• Busy father;
• Successful father;
• Family leader;
• Affordable father father;
• Still failed father;
• Patient;
• Strict;
• Impulsive and unbearable;
• Chute and caring;
• Stern father;
• Always at work;
• Distant father;
• Complete if you want.

2. Who more often communicates with your child in the family: With you, mom, grandmother, grandfather, sister (brother), TV, toys (emphasize)?
3. What do you think are the functions of the Father in the family?
4. Please form the educational functions of the father in the family?
5. How much time do you spend with your child?
6. What do you do in your free time?
7. Does the child ask you to play with him, read, tell about something?
8. How often do you speak your child:"Now I am busy, then ..." - very often, sometimes, rarely, almost never (emphasize).
9. What do you do when you can not fulfill his request?
10. In your opinion, do you get a child in dealing with your father something that can not be fulfilled with the mother? Stress the selected answer:

• No;
• Mother and father in everything can replace and duplicate each other;
• Did not have to think about this issue;
• Give your answer

11. How often are you talking to a child: "I love you", phrases, emphasizing your unity and community (emphasize)?

• Often;
• Sometimes;
• Seldom;
• Almost never.

12. How often do you tell the child about what you like in it (emphasize)?

• Often;
• Sometimes;
• Seldom;
• Almost never;

13. Do you scold your child with strangers, friends?
14. What are the difficulties in communicating with children?
15. Kindness or rigor are your assistants in education
16. How do you have common and favorite classes with a child? What kind?
17. Do you like to spend your holidays with or without children?

Appendix 2.

Questions for interviews.

Interview about dad with a child.

Do you love your dad? For what?

Who is doing more with you in your free time - Dad or Mom?

What do you do in your free time with dad?

What dad is busy in the evenings?

If you were (a) dad, what would you help (la) mom at home?

When you with dad together, what are you talking about? What dad ask you questions? What are you asking him about?

Who dad works? What does it work at work?

Dad dad swells? For what?

What is your dad? Good or strict?

What do you like to do with dad?

When will you grow, how will you be a dad?

Interview about daddy with mom:

What father in the family?

How is the father's role in the family perceived (with gratitude, support, criticism)?

Who will be a son or daughter in the morning, collects in kindergarten?

In your opinion, is there enough dad pays attention to the child?

How often does an interesting business deal with him? What?

Does the child teaches a useful job? What?

Does an example of bad habits show (does it smoke with a child in the room, fits, meets in a noisy company with friends)?

Does houses help?

MBOU "Baragaskaya SOSH", Dow "Brusnik"

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What should be a real dad?

Such which and tensum to give birth is not scary - everyone will raise, everyone will make up, everyone will take care of ...

Does this dad coincide with a person who can be called an ideal husband? Can a real dad love another woman, and not a real mother? What man is worthy to be called dad?

Did you ever think about it?

This dad is a very complex phenomenon.

Here each of us will definitely remember yourself as a child and express their children's wishes for dad, wishes, mixed up and on happy memories, and in the first resentment ...

Then everyone will add their adult claims to the Father of the family. Thinks - and will finish the qualities that are advantageous not only to children, but also mom.

It is difficult, oh, how hard it is to understand what a real father should be. Almost just as hard as becoming ...

Probably, first of all, the real father is immensely happy to his child. Whatever he has sex, weight, type and sign of the zodiac. No matter how much he cried, neither sick, nor a hooliganil or, on the contrary, nor Tihuznichnal.

A real father is happy to take on all parental responsibilities immediately, of course, and undoubtedly - even though the nature of such opportunities for the male psyche did not provide.

Another real father is not ashamed to express his feelings. He does not put on the mask of the harsh Viking, does not argue with his hand on the small divids of this world of this world, he can be happy, to sympathize, disagree, take someone to argue or gently agree.

All below follows from the first two points:

• A real father is not afraid to go walk with his own child in a sandbox or in the park, he does not see anything acknowledged in order to change the diapers, can sit with a child at the weekend, while the mother has fun with girlfriends and even go to maternity leave.
• A real father for three years before the child turns three years, knows which sports sections will be heavily led.
• A real father is always ready to change the excellent hockey section on a music school if the child suddenly will find a conservative veil.
• A real father fry meat cancels, soaked kebabs, fries potatoes and carries cappist.
• A real father is able to rally around himself the whole family and arrange departure to nature, a two-day hike, a trip to savages in Crimea or even alloy on kayaks on mountain rivers.
• A real Father knows how and loves to collect mushrooms and fish, respectively, his children since childhood will know this incredible kayf quiet hunting in the forest and contemplative sport on the river.

12:16, June 7, 2018

"What should dad?"

Father's Day - there is such - the holiday is passing. It is celebrated in the third Sunday of June and this year falls on the 17th. In the Russian traditions, the man first of all is responsible for providing families with everything necessary, while a woman, and many share this opinion, must support the family hearth. And what about the upbringing of children - whose duty, according to our society? Will it turn out that the dads from it are eliminated? We asked about it.

Archpriest Victor Polyakov,
The abbot of the temple in honor of the Holy Great Martyr George Victorious:

Denis Chernov,
writer:

I disagree that the role of the father in raising children decreased. The man at all times was responsible for ensuring that the family was provided with everything necessary. Now this responsibility in many families is divided between both parents, and in some lies more on the mother. But it is impossible to take off responsibility for education with any parents. Mother gives a child a limitless love that is capable of only the maternal heart. Father teaches a personal example responsible for his actions, make decisions, find answers to questions of interest. And the most important thing is that the child needs, in my opinion, is attention. Need to talk to him about everything. To try as much as possible and how much it is possible to frankly respond to any questions that he asks. It develops speech and thinking. And it is still very important to play games.

Mikhail Kuts,
Fitter:

If you think about the meaning of the word "non-trap", which means raising a child in an incomplete family, then in some sense it can be understood as orphanhood. The child should have two parents, each of which operates its role in the upbringing. In my opinion, it is impossible to lay the necessary qualities in children if the family did not create an atmosphere of love and mutual respect, and if the parents do not teach a child on their example. When parents in priority are material values, and not the creation of a family hearth, which implies building relationships both between parents and children and between the spouses themselves, then lay moral landmarks in the child will be difficult. Not to mention situations when instead of education together, a mother with his father is in constant conflict, and the child sees it. As a result, the authority of parents in the eyes falls. The ability to love and forgive, patience - this is what the parents are important to teach children in a moral plan.

Vladimir Maer,
builder:

Over the past years, the fifty-role of the Father in Education has not changed. As it used to be that the father at work (like a mother, by the way!), So now it remains. Fathers, as in Soviet times, returning home, at best, long play with young children (and Thank you). It is already more difficult with schoolchildren - there you need patience, strong nerves for help in preparing homework. With the fact that the fathers now "plow" more than ever, I would argue. Changed living conditions, work. And rest, by the way! At the time of tsarism, the patriarchal gender man in the house was the main breadwinner, the breadthrough. And since families were more families, the mother was more in the house, with the household and, accordingly, they spent more with children, thereby raising them. And the father was a continued authority, whose word was the law. Of course, if he was a real employee, father, not a prescription. Now there are many temptations in terms of "spectacles", and with "bread" easier. It seems to be easier to live, but if many of us are upbringing?

Fathers can and should show how to be in life. In a relationship with a woman, with parents. Daughter when grows, subconsciously will look for itself the same man as dad. The same decent in the relationship, the same caring. Or vice versa.

The son needs a father who will teach his crafts, necessary in everyday life, will tell me how to become a real man, fighter, defender.

I remember when our twin girls went to elementary classes, I had a closer contact with them. The work allowed to be at home more often, and I was younger. There was a guitar on which I practically did not know how to play. Only three chords. He played and sang them "Cat Murlyk", other songs. Invented and told fairy tales. Since then, twenty-five years have passed, and they still remember those songs with nostalgia. I do not remember them, and there is no longer that guitar. And they remember. Let's chat more often with your children. It will not be completely late ...

Oleg Antonov,
a carpenter:

Father must participate in the upbringing of children. And it doesn't matter, the girl is or a boy. Referred to employment, for permanent mining of money, at least dishonest. Speeches about the dominant role in raising should not be - it is built exclusively on parity values. Another thing is the style of upbringing. Father - Chapter, Defender, Corm. So his plane of education in this. Mother is a keeper of a homely focus, this is its specificity. Of course, all this with a loaf to the modern realities of life. But! No one has canceled eternal life values. If we want to keep the family in its original form, then they must adhere to them.

What qualities should the Father give? First, teach the child to keep the word. Secondly, teach persistence in achieving the goals. And if the Son, then teach the boy respect to the mother and in general to the woman. And, of course, the initial skills in the "climbing nail".

Stanislav Lashko,
System Administrator:

Although most often dad sees the child only in the morning and in the evening, his presence in the child's life, not only physical, is very important. Dad must bring up responsibility, masculinity, determination. It is very important both for boys and for girls.

Anton Drojabin,
journalist:

I am confident that in connection with the matriarchy, which has long been dominated, the role of the Father in the upbringing, on the contrary, has increased dramatically. In the old days, only fathers and raised, and that's right. Women are hyperemology tactics, men - quiet strategists. Only dad can give a holistic picture of the world.

Ieria Andrei Bandin,
Head of the Youth Department of the Nizhny Novgorod Diocese:

I think my father's education will never go to the background. The child, especially between the ages of three and 14, is needed, as they say, a solid men's hand. The most important thing for young fathers is not to pass with this rigor, not to turn out of a just in a rigid person. This face is very thin.

Prepared Daria Petrov

Father for Son - the main example of the imitation. Not everyone is fully aware of the importance of the role of the Father in the education of the son. Any male baby is not born a man in the full sense of the word. Male character, as well as a deeds worthy of a real man, can be raised only by our own positive example.

• Awareness of his role in education

It is important that his father fully aware of his role in raising a child, then his authority as the head of the family will be indisputable, and the child will respect the Father and reach it. After missing the upbringing of children in the first years of life, it is sometimes very difficult to catch a spent time or not at all.

Male type of relationship is inherent exclusively to men, and therefore the father always becomes the son of the first and most important friend. Between them, as a rule, there are such relationships that many women simply do not understand the sort of peculiar method of upbringing. The boys adopt his father all his qualities, sometimes even the best, but characteristic of him. Only the behavior of the father seems to be a truly correct and fair, and its lifestyle is the theorem that does not need evidence.

• Child or work?

The father must pay the son to maximize attention, sometimes postponing the work "for later." The most common mistake is to booke with toys or sweets. Some men believe that thus compensate for the lack of attention. In fact, material values \u200b\u200bthat seek an adult primary task for crumbs are not so important. It is much more pleasant to play with his parents, especially the Father, or get out of his family walk. Replacing communication with purchases, parents simply recognize their weakness and the inability to fulfill their parental responsibilities.

• No aggression

The opposite problem behavior is also found often . In this case, parents do not creep the kid by purchases, thus compensating for a lack of attention. They begin to demand from a child of unquestionless subordination, establish incredibly Spartan rules or read long and extremely tedious notations. Such behavior kills in the child the desire to communicate with the elders, he begins to seek understanding on the side.

• Basics of behavior

An unleashed and improper behavior in the family is the biggest mistake that the father may allow. For example, a disrespectful attitude towards mother of his child leads to the loss of her authority, the baby simply will not respect his mother. The attacks of aggression towards their parents (grandmother and grandfather of the child) The baby also begins to understand as the only correct style of communication. Are you sure that in a few years you will not be fed the same fate? Relationships in the family, your behavior in society, non-useful reviews about people - all this child "copies" and comes in the same age in adulthood. Therefore, yielding to your short ambitions, you show the child a bad example. The baby begins to form an incorrect idea of \u200b\u200bhow the head of the family should be.

The boys brought up by the example of disrespect for members of their family and others, not only not able to be supporting their second half, but also do not perceive other stereotypes of behavior. Life installation has already been formed, and nothing cannot be done about it.

Mama on a notic!

Girls Hi) I didn't think that the problem of stretch marks would affect me, and I will write about it))) But there is nowhere to go, so I write here: how did I get rid of stretch marks after giving birth? I will be very glad if my way will help you ...

The same can be said about bad habits. If you smoke yourself or periodically use alcohol, how will you explain to the child, what is it harmful and dangerous to health? Does he understand you?

The behavioral bases are laid in earlier childhood. Stereotypes and norms of social relations must be understood by the child, and give them the right interpretation - one of the paramount tasks of the Father. You need to be able to send a son, to create the very "carcass", which will continue to "impose" materials from personal experience.

Do not miss the relationship with the opposite sex. Teach your son to treat women as an equal side, without excessive superiority. And at the same time, the baby must understand that in some life situations it should be a reliable rear and a strong shoulder.

• Child and society

Relationships in society is an important part of life, but also to be managed with household matters. To begin, it is possible to teach a child just to clean up, and then you can add other important things to his duties. For example, fitting the floor, take the garbage, help the dad hang a picture ... Yes, you never know the houses! A real man should be able to cope with the most difficult job.

After you introduced my son with household chores, you can begin to master the financial component of life. The child must understand that money does not come from nowhere, but are earned with their own difficulty. But in the process of adaptation to the financial side of life, it is important not to rearrange and dwell on the golden middle. The child should have a respectful attitude towards earned funds, but without idolatry.

Good education is possible only with a positive personal example. Children "absorb" all our positive and negative qualities. Do not tighten the moment of upbringing to transitional age, start learning the Son from early childhood and react to his mistakes immediately.

Imagine for a minute that your child in the future will also become the head of the family. What young man would you like to see your daughter as a husband? Surely he should be disciplined, law-abiding, be able to cope with life and respond for his words and actions? Having answered these questions, you can develop the right tactics of behavior.

The value of the participation of the father in the education of the child

In pursuit of financial stability in the family, men often forget the main life value - grow and raise a child. As a rule, in modern families, this certificate duty is allocated only by the mother. But this upbringing is obtained by one-sided, because Replaced with a man in all life situations a woman can not. Father uses educational functions other than mother. He gives the baby what a woman cannot. In the upbringing of children, fathers follow logic, sequence and principle. While mom more often gives slack and cancels his own bans after a while.

For a child, it is important to watch the entire family behavior model daily. Father gives the baby the opportunity to see how to handle the beautiful floor, respect the elders, love and take care of loved ones. When the Father, coming from work, instead of lying on the sofa, interested in the affairs of all family members, communicates with each of them, the child feels its significance and self-confidence.

Sometimes a mother is so strongly tied to his karapuz, which simply protects him from his father, especially if he exists a hardness of character in raising a child. It is wrong, because a man seeks to grow from the Son - a real defender of his future family, strong, strong, bold. It is clear that the formation of such qualities is tempered in a few harsh conditions, which, according to women, may seem too cruel. Such behavior of women is found if the child has a lot of sick or born in women in rather mature age. In women whose firstborn was born in 20-25 years, as a rule, there are no such feelings.

Father's functions in child raising

When it comes to a full family, a man must and is obliged to actively participate in the life of his child. Psychologists have identified the most important features of the Father in the upbringing and development of children. These include the following.

Physical development. Father participates in the formation of motor skills in children up to a year. A man unlike a woman is not afraid to engage in active games with such a bloop, both both (and father and baby) get great pleasure from this. Mothers should not take the baby from the dad during the uplinks up, skating on the shoulders and other extreme fun. Such games are not only a child's cheerful, but also stimulate physical development - he will quickly learn to crawl and walk, and besides other things, the vestibular apparatus will be formed and developing and developing.

Thinking. Father, if desired, can become the main assistant in teaching the child to talk. Mom and grandmothers in this case are moved to the secondary plan with their "Sysyukan". A man, thanks to his brutality, talking to a crumbling right and clearly. In addition, the father is more effective to teach a child to deal with puzzles and designers. Close contacts with dad help the baby to develop a logical, abstract and concrete thinking.

Balance the relationship of the child and mother. Closer to 2 years old, the child will have to be removed from the mother who was present almost 24 hours a day in his life. It is due to this can be with a breast release, mother's output to work or the design of the crumbs in a preschool institution. Fathers can help the baby overcome the maternal dependence. Psychologists note that if a man takes on the role of a child's guide to a kindergarten or the initiator of the resettlement of crumbs into a separate room, the process of separating the mother goes less painful.

Socialization. Father makes a child certain requirements that need to be clearly performed in society. He teaches the baby respectfully to treat the people around him, behave properly outside the house. In the process of education precisely from the father, the baby learns what approval, reigning and punishment.

Polo Identification. The behavior of the dad becomes a benchmark for the boy. Masculinity, confidence, respect for women are the main features that you need to instill a son. But the daughter's close chat with dad allows you to quickly understand your female role in life.

Father is a person who complements the female parenting of the child. Without his participation, the kid is deprived of the lion's share of values \u200b\u200band concepts in the family, he does not see an example for imitation.

Father's role and authority for son

An example of a father is a life banner for a son. In the subconscious boy, a male behavior model is formed. Father his authority is applied an example of how to live and what to strive for. A man with a raising son is necessary to follow their behavior and habits daily. After all, if he makes a mistake, the child immediately picks up a bad example.

The boy who grown in a prosperous and full family often adheres to the same family principles and in adulthood. From how his father communicates with the mother, the attitude of the young man's relationship with the opposite sex. Attitude towards women is formed in childhood on the example of parents and in later life, it is difficult to correct anything.

Most boys from a certain age strive to form a strong and hardy body. Father can help her son choose a suitable sport that allows not only to increase physical strength, but also learn accuracy and discipline. Together with the dad, the child will pass all the difficult stages of the formation of the character and the power of the will. It is important for a man to encourage the Son, praise him for success and maintain in failure.

The role of the father in the education of his daughter

Girls perceive father's education completely different. In their consciousness, an image of a man appears, which they rush throughout life. If a man appreciated the maximum effort, gave all his love and tenderness of his daughter, then she will begin to look for a satellite of life similar to his beloved dad. The exact opposite situation arises when the Father exhibits aggression in the family, does not participate in the upbringing and does not care about the family.

However, often we see situations when loving dad is ready for everything for all for his little princess. He purses all her whims, pampers, performs all of her wishes and demands, not understanding what mistake he makes. Accustomed to such behavior of his father, the girl grows a capricious, shaking and bald. Subsequently, it will be difficult for her to find a satellite of life, it is difficult to create a family, and indeed, the problems in communicating with the opposite sex of the girl are provided.

Father should not indulge his princess, even if you really want to ask gifts and goodies. He may be kind to the girl, but also to demand from it depending on age. The girl needs to see how his father communicates with her mother, observe their romantic relationships. This picture from childhood will form a sample of family values \u200b\u200band relationships with men.

The huge merit of fathers in the upbringing of daughters is that they make it possible to know the world around the world from a male position. Common family walks are transformed into fascinating research activities, where the father teaches daughter to navigate the terrain, distinguish between insects and animals. Dad can find clear, truthful and exhaustive answers, to the inquisitive questions of the daughter.

Father's role in patriotic education

In a full-fledged family, where the father plays a dominant role, children form the first primators of patriotism. In preschool age, kids learn to love their family, take care and protect all its members. The tasks of paternal education include the preparation of children for life in society, the formation of civilian skills. It is a man, as a defender of the Fatherland, can give knowledge and skills that have a look at the child and the system of statehood.

Patriotic education is the system of socialization of children, allowing to assess the importance of the Motherland, learn to take care of its resources and nature. It begins in a family and school, where the child is taught to fulfill certain duties and rules. The patriotism of the young citizen is primarily manifested in spiritual and moral connection with the family. The father has an example for the younger generation of citizens with its civil action and deeds.

Features of the education of a child without a father

Unfortunately, the modern state cannot fully protect children from what they have to grow in incomplete families. There are too many reasons for this: irresponsible attitude to the choice of a partner, fear of difficulties, the reluctance of parents to adapt to each other's character. One of the reasons that children grow in incomplete families are the absence of a man in raising children. If one of them has fallen in the family of the newly-made parents, there is probably the children of such parents who have probably liked the children of such parents.

Single mothers are hard to educate children on their own, without male support, but they have to gain patience and create a harmonious and calm atmosphere in their family. A woman should get rid of negative thoughts about the lack of her husband and direct all their strength and energy to raise the child. It is worth noting that this task is not easy and there are several moments dependent on the floor of the child. For boys, the Father is the main landmark in life. His absence forms an excessive dependence on the mother in the kid.

For boys, the Father is the main landmark in life. His absence forms an excessive dependence on the mother in the kid.

Of course, a woman can teach the Son to be gentle, devotees, kind and sincere. But it cannot become an example of manhood, durability and emotional stability. Without a father, the boy can grow infantile, he will not know how to protect himself and his family, will not be able to control his emotions in difficult situations.

Mother should help the baby to find a landmark that will be an example of masculinity and purposefulness. It may be a grandfather or older brother, and the best thing to give the baby to the sports section, where the coach is a man. A woman can also motivate the Son to help around the house, even if he is quite a crumb, collect his toys is not so difficult. The main thing is to encourage the independence of the child and the desire to protect mom.

In the upbringing of girls it is better, because they have a mother in life - an example for imitation. Daughter to quickly learn kindness, responsiveness and other female qualities. But problems may appear in adolescence when puberty will begin and pull to the opposite sex. If the girl was brought up without dad, she is unlikely to understand male logic and even sincere feelings of peers for her will be a mystery. Therefore, my mother should think about the search for a man who will love not only her, but also a little daughter.

Instead of imprisonment

The role of a man in raising children is enormous. The huge merit of fathers in the upbringing is to form a male behavior model for sons, becoming them of both strong and bold personalities. When raising the daughters, the role of the father is no less significant, i.e. It becomes a reference for the girl - the way the perfect man, which will be very important when forming the girls' skills to communicate with the opposite sex. The task of the mother, not to protect children from the Father, do not strive to combine both parents in their face, and if necessary, helping the contact of children with her husband.