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Bondage, or differently, binding, is the easiest view of sadomasochism. In French, sexy slave is called "Ligottage" (from the word LigoTage - slavery or dependence). Many people believe that the binding of the partner in sex is a very exciting thing, but try to be afraid. And, by the way, for a man to look at his charming prisoner causes an extraordinary tide of excitement, and for a woman there is no possibility to move, may entail an excellent experience in obtaining gradual orgasm.
How to bind a girl
So, let's look at how to connect the girl with a minimum of inconvenience and damage.
One of the methods of binding, which is customary to call "Bordel", implies tie all legs and hands of a girl to each bed leg. Under the hips, the girl is best put one or two pillows for greater convenience. For such a type of binding, a special dexterity is not required, but many similar deployed postures do not allow to achieve a peak of pleasure. For this reason, there are other ways: spread legs and tightly connected behind their hands, tied to a pole or challow, and so on.
Very popular Japanese sexual binding methodwhich is called Shibari. The object of Schibari is always young beautiful girls, this practice is very popular and in art photos. There are 2 types of Shibari:
- Karada (cord in the form of a mesh tested torso);
- Shinju (the cord is tied up the breast, which reminds the bra from the rope).
Basic dots for binding, thereby enhanced sexual attraction:
- Wrists;
- Elbows (however, do not reduce their strength behind the girl, because it is possible to break);
- Ankle;
- Thumbs and legs;
- Soles feet.
- Than tie
In the sense of the choice of material, which will be bonded, all fans of hard and soft bdsm will act in their taste: rubber bands, skin laces, flap from clothes, soft rope, silk cords - everything is suitable. Some original subjects can apply real strait shoes to get more entourage, so everything will be used. Someone will use coarse chains, shackles or handcuffs, but in this case, of course, it is necessary to make sure that the iron will not be able to cause contamination or allergies on the skin. In addition, hard locks will not create the necessary compression, they are very inconvenient to lie on them, and in emergency cases it is not always possible to open. You can even tie the girl with a plaster or scotch, but then it will be quite unpleasant to dy up a sticky tape from it.
Additional binding
In addition to binding legs, hands, chest and chest, many hard sex supporters can tie their partner mouth and eyes. But if the eyes of the girl can be tied with the help of any scarf, which falls at hand, then with the mouth you have to be very neat. First, you need to take care of the purity of what you plan to put in your mouth with your captivity. In no case, in no case hurry to shove it between the teeth with a rag, impregnated with pesticides or a bulb from rubber, which before that visited where. Only practical and clean! Secondly, you should not completely deprive the girl the opportunity to speak, the girl should always have the opportunity to give a sign if something went wrong. Let it be, for example, a triple knock with a free fist, or a posting or fracturing using the Morse alphabet, but the conditional sign should always be. Also, in no case do not bind anything around the neck, even if she asks you about it. If she wants this so much, then slightly invent her hand, but only no cords on her neck should be!
If we talk about hanging a knitted girl, then this is done, only the real masters of BDSM-A. Correct your partner correctly, and then also raise it on hooks or some other installation in such a way that there is no danger to limbs or organs - it must be learned. Also, in order to their own security, it is not worth practicing such a BDSM method with unfamiliar people or the topic that is in a drunken state. Also, it is also impossible to leave your partner for a while more than 20 minutes.
If you want to see clearly, how to tie a woman videoshowing a master class how to make it give you this opportunity.
Unreal brunette in a short black dress, at the moment, barely covered her waist, wriggles in the suspension under the ceiling, masterfully joined rope. The nodes and interlacing are effectively lying on it to the limit of a bent body, outlining shoulders, chest, buttocks. Her hands are connected behind their backs, legs are stretched in vertical twine: right rided under the knee and fixed raised up, left free. A woman in ordinary life if she is not a gymnast and not a ballerina, it is impossible to take such an open and unprotected pose. Voluntary witnesses of this erotic scene, including me, are trying to catch that the girl feels - pain, pleasure, fear, anticipate orgasm? But her head is lowered down, the hair hide emotions.
The silent pause lasts no more than ten seconds. The stress indoors is so powerful that, it seems, it starts to crack the furniture. Only the one who knitting it is entitled to the girl. He, according to the rules of the game (so far it will be called this action), it carries full responsibility for it and decides how to come further. Stop and turning this sensual performance in the prelude to sex or tighten the ropes tighten - and then it will be more painful, just as it will allow - the associated side has the right to stop the word, and, as it turned out, it is desirable that it is the most sobering (for example, "Fishermen!").
Alec Zadder (he is Alexander Sokolov) - one of the best masters of Shibari in the CIS - and his model Tatiana is creating with the help of a rope something extended from the point of view of human capabilities. The most complex strapping, stretching, suspensions ... If you do not delveue what load is Tatiana, you can enjoy the spectacle, it is steeper presenting Cirque du Soleil. I wonder what I would feel if I had allowed to tie myself in such a position? I do not know. Perhaps excitement. Perhaps aggression - if not to make an amendment to the show-effect and objectively look at what is happening, Tanya resembles Lan, which fell into the trap.
Another second, Alec removes her hair from Tatiana's face, lifts her head, kisses her lips, and then slowly spends his hand between her slender legs. Tatiana smiles, makes a deep moan and looks, it seems, through it, not blinking. In her eyes I read and passion, and pain, and pleasure. Later, it will be explained that the girl was in the state of "Sabspeits" - so called a light trance, caused by painful sensations (from the pressure of the rope), in which the brain activity will slow down, a person loses a sense of time, and a large number of endorphins are thrown into the blood. Many for a long time and skillfully practitioners Schibari connoisseurs of acute sensations are looking for just this state - as an alternative to orgasm.
Once in the Middle East in a private club, I had the opportunity to watch how I was hunting (unfortunately, in captivity), the female of the world's largest spider spider Theraphosa Blondi, which could easily swallow the bird of medium-sized. So, the scope of its limbs at the time of the attack the blood is frozen, but at the same time hypnotizes, and the scene emotions are very similar to this. Lan, who fell into the trap? No, perhaps, Tanya - Terafoz Blonde.
With these thoughts, I collect things and leave home from the club, in which I spent about six hours, studying the technique of regions and nodes. Reportages are not customary from the end, but in the case of Schibari - it is possible: in this art, much is connected with each other, it is not so obvious as it seems.
Woman with a rope in caresses does not need
Actually, I have never seriously planned to be captivated by binding. But recently, discussing another topic for the essay, and at the same time, and just released Sicvel "for 50 shades Darker" (the continuation of the film "50 shades of gray"), told the sexologist Ekaterina's favorite about the statistics, which was discovered from colleagues in Marie Claire Australia. According to polls, 70 percent of Australian women dream of being connected during sex.
"It does not surprise me," Katya supported me. - In his trainings for many years I have heard almost every second girl about what she would like to feel the domination of a partner over himself. Fantasy to be immobilized - a female dream of subordination. A well-fixed woman in pre-caress does not need, and at the same time, her defenselessness excites a man sometimes stronger than any prelude. "
Sounded convincing. A day later, I stood on the threshold closed from an outsided chamber of the Moscow Schibar Club, designed for no more than twenty people. Spacious halls (there are several of them), people talking in a low-voice, soft mats on the floor and light twilight - the situation inside reminded me of an elite island SPA, with the difference that in this space is full of wooden pillars and durable frames under the ceiling, on which dozens are fixed Rings with carbines. No Google or Yandex-card officially indicated that in this house from the yellow brick, built at the beginning of the last century, people who were going to the Japanese philosophy from time to time. Judging by the appearance and parked at the entrance to cars (including with drivers), each here coming in ordinary life can manage a large international company.
Special conditions for entering the club does not exist. Alec Zadder turned out to be a famous "knitting teacher" - at least, thirteen years ago, he wrote the first guide on Shibari (it is still the only one). "Come alone," he told me on the phone. - For training receivers, Schibari partner is not obligatory, you will be enough your own body. Dress? Any comfortable. Want aesthetics - put on a free skirt. However, and from the lack of clothing in faint with us do not fall. "
Caution, you can burn
In cashmere turtleneck and jeans occupy a convenient position of the observer. The first part of the training is the theoretical case. "When you compare the examples of Shibari and the European bondage, it seems that the European rustling is very in a hurry somewhere," explains Zadder (by the way, Shibari in translation from Japanese means "to bind, bind"). - The rope is wound somehow, everything looks made on the run between the office and the gym. The Japanese is not in a hurry anywhere. He is always wondering how exactly he does one or another thing. It does not matter, you associate a person to do certain actions over it either in order to straighten him posture, - in Shibari you do it thought. "
The second feature of Japanese technology is that binding is very erotic. The straps are always performed in such a way as to emphasize the sexuality of the model, it is possible to outset her genitals, stick the chest. Many mistakenly consider Shibari ancient samurai art. I also heard something about it. But I find out that the art of combat Japanese binding is called Khodzu-Dzutsu, and Shibari only borrowed some techniques from there. In relations with the partner, Schibari master exists within the framework of the relationship "Parent - child", and the "parent" is certainly kind.
The main tool in Shibari is a twisted rope from a natural material (flax or jute). Although it is possible to work with what it is convenient and that nodes can provide: ropes, cords, bandages, scarves, silk ribbons. The advantages of natural material are indisputable - any interlacing of such a rope is already in itself a node that keeps well. In addition, a natural rope is more pleasant to the body (try to quickly drag a long synthetic lace through a compressed fist and feel it burns). The most running diameter of the rope is 6-8 mm. This is a compromise between the convenience of Master Shibari and his partner: the thinner the rope, the longest the model, the thicker - the more difficult to the fingers of the binding.
Rates more than sex
The first and main "direct node" (the most reliable, and most importantly - if you pull the rope in the right direction, it is easy to unleash) I propose to tie on your own leg. Indeed, everything is not so difficult if you catch the direction, but the first time it does not work. "You got a stupid knot - he does not withstand the load, therefore it is considered dangerous," explains the Zadder and in three bills, I didn't even have time to notice, deftly and confidently connects my feet into a few girth.
"I got! Now you will be shown that there are chibari in the suspension, "my neighbor is having fun, an experienced businesswoman from Yekaterinburg's binding theme. With Svetlana, we met a couple of minutes before the start of classes. She managed to tell that she came to the club for new knowledge - her husband was not against, but stayed at home.
"Shibari in the suspension is the highest pilot, - now Svetlana says seriously. - But practicing sensible beginners are not solved - it is very easy to injure the partner. From the fall due to the ineptly fixed rope to the injury of the radiot nerve of the hand (in this case, the brush can take up for several months). My husband and I decided for the first time just a year of training. "
While Zander teaches us to tie a loop, intercept them with a straight knot, make the strapping of the knee, chest, hips and, most importantly, to connect hands (one of the important rules of Shibari: while the person has free hands, the session did not begin), the world tells me how connected A woman is really free. Does this mean that it is freed from the complexes, stops thinking about a figure with its extra folds, real and imaginary disadvantages? Quite. After all, from the point of view of Japanese aesthetics, the standard of beauty does not exist - a man who knits the female body, looks at the picture in general, he does not see flaws.
"But, the main thing, Shibari gives me complete freedom - I turn off from problems - and unconditional confidence in my husband: at this point I delegate him all responsibility for myself," answers my question of the world. After the session, when everything went well, according to her, she is experiencing strong respect for his spouse. It is aware that it was not in vain at one time chose him to her husband.
"The theme of Shibari is often fond of couples where a woman leads. She earns or initially higher in social status. For example, I have already contained a family for years. Thank you for my husband for being near. We survived three crisis, in the process of each were submitted for a divorce - they could not understand where the passion in our bedroom was disappeared. And we found it. "
Curious item: Husband does not allow to connect Svetlana to other men. "You must understand: the rope is very closer to partners, more than sex. A person, at least once a successfully connected you, becomes native, "she explains not without pleasure.
Our conversation is of interest to Olga. She came to the training with her husband, and while he carefully examines the scheme of another strapping, in which the woman can be fixed in the maximum open position, I recognize a lot of interesting things about him. Olga and Victor tried Schibari a couple of years ago, began with the simplest poses: Hands immobilized behind his back, the ankles fixed at the tibia ... At some point, the husband was carried away, tied Olga to the head. "This was a sea aesthetics, a sea of \u200b\u200beroticism," she admits. - Under the pressure of the rope, my skin is no one, it seemed, I losing the sensitivity of the "outside" and gaining it "inside." After we took up the best sex in our life - I experienced a very bright orgasm. "
"Congratulations! - Tchader several times loudly chlorides hands. - It is impossible for the first time for the first time, and it is not necessary. Having spent skills to automatism, you will easily repeat any strapping and pose, the benefit on the Internet there are many. Knit need quickly and confident. And remember about the safety technique. "
Some pairs came here not for Aza, but for the practice of "suspension." And while they are passionate about the process, am I trying to understand whether the rope is capable of walking along my skin, replacing a set of preliminary caress? Do I want to come here not alone? I do not know ... I see the face of my new acquaintances: they found and practice pretty bold sex therapy - Shibari brought them closer.
Thoughts are confused, and attention is attracted by a curious family tandem - she is blue-eyed brunette, beauty years of thirty five, it looks like Steve Jobs - restrained, smart and glasses. The spouse, lying on the back, laughs loudly: the husband tied her hands, put the right foot with a rope, fixing in the suspension. "Dear, and what's next?" - The girl is having fun.
"Laughter issues in this woman a frivolous attitude towards her husband," Christina Master Schibari and a psychologist on education explains in a whisper. - She obviously does not mind her more brutal, such as Alec. This pair will have a long way ... "
Hearing laughter, Zander fits a frankly flirting woman, silently removes the rope from the wall, collects her hair in the "horse tail", winds up the knot and fixes his head behind the tail in the suspension. "Wow!" - I manage to exhale the "sacrifice", closes your eyes and finally ceases to laugh, giving my husband freedom for improvisation.
Will you unleash? Sure?
"Of course, Shibari can be used as a prelude to sex - with sufficient fantasy, you can use anything. But about the essence only says, without which it is not necessary, - Ironzing Zander. - Is it possible to do in Shibari without sex? Can. Without affection? Can. Without beautiful, without sensuality, you can also. It is impossible to do without a rope. Without the one man makes another helpless. " "If you want an easy sexual game with ropes, if your partner connects you, then he will also unleash you when you play," he asks the hall loudly, "right? Unlock? Are you sure? When a woman's tired of work come to me, the powerful men who have broken pairs, I accept them and tie them what they want, is my job. But Shibari I do with those who are tired of masks, from insincerity. With those who crave to surrender. "
I understand what Alec says. But I do not want to develop this topic. I am not interested in and alone. Game with pain for me - Antisex. But the aesthetics and beauty of the strapping Shibari does not give rest. Prelude from related hands (handcuffs - no; tape, handkerchief or rope - yes) and silk bandages in the eyes excuses consciousness, perhaps, I'm ready to try. In homeopathic doses. And, of course, now in the collection of my stories there is a bestseller, capable of keeping the attention around as much as it takes. Showing on the laces, as the simplest knot sticks, I sincerely enjoy the understanding that every time as if I "tying" the interlocutor about Shibari. In a decent society, they do not talk about the weather, especially when there is a reason to discuss some more interesting.
Female opinion
Sex Coach Ekaterina Lyubimova: Contemplation of a bound woman prolongs potency
Women's sexual fantasy about binding is the most ordinary reality. In ancient times, a woman was needed by alpha-male - a cruel warrior, a real predator, a hunter, a enslator. The more he could kill enemies, the higher the likelihood that his offspring and his woman would be safe. In essence, the bigger and merciless was a man, the more comfortable a woman with him. What subtle feelings we did not start. Hundreds of centuries passed, but this instinct did not disappear anywhere. Only in the modern world, the man does not need to kill the mammoth, and we get married quite decent and, most importantly, good guys. However, instinct suggests: Show me your power, let me feel that you are a beast that you can be dangerous. When a woman is connected, due to the feeling of helplessness, any touch of a partner is perceived as a special act of power and becomes an additional sexual stimulation. A man seems sexually exciting stranger.
Feelings are even more exacerbated if the mask or her eyes are tied. The deprivation process increases the sensations of the skin and exacerbates the sensitivity to the situation itself.
In the classic chibari rope tied in such a way as to stimulate the nipples, the clitoris, the eve of the vagina, the inguinal zones of a woman. This is really the art of excitement. For example, there are poses in which the woman is convenient to tease and tickle the clitoris, and then in the partner brought to exhaustion to penetrate vaginally. At the same time, the Pose guarantees the opportunity to immediately go to oral sex. In classic chibari, it is believed that even a simple contemplation of a bound woman extends to male potency for many years.
Position "Female Vepry"
A man connects partner separate arms and legs. A woman falls on his back and puts his wrists as close as possible to the ankles. The man binds ankle and wrist together. The woman turns out to be fixed with the legs spread. From the poses on the back, a man can turn the woman in Doggi-Style.
Position "Frog"
This is the posture in which the ankles are tied to the thighs in such a way that the woman takes a position similar to the pose of a faded frog. The model of the model is maximally spread. The wrists are associated with their backs. A man binds a woman legs. If in such a position the partner will put a model on the back, it will provide him as deep penetration. A man can also easily start with irrocation, taking a woman for his head.
History Shibari
The Patriarch of the Japanese binding method is the artist Sayu Ito. At the beginning of the 20th century, he actively painted and photographed "punished women" (in the Japanese interpretation, a connected woman - a punished woman), including the wife-to-fitter, for which he deserved the glory and the reputation of a subtle esthete in his homeland.
The Second World War made adjustments: For a long time, the Japanese were not to photographs and ropes. The period of erotic renaissance came in the 60-70s, it is associated with the work of Master Schibari (or Kinbaku, that the same thing) of Eykiti siege - he developed the technique, gave lessons and left behind a lot of artifacts in the form of a photo and video that We had success in Europe and Russia.
The first thing to do is to discuss with a partner as much as he is ready for the experiment. Agree about who of you will connect, and who will act as a model. Second - during the game you should not experience pain. If you feel that the knitted hands are strongly crushed and ease, it is better to stop (by the way, remember the softest accessories for binding). An important component is a mask or tape on the eyes.
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Illustrations: Lensberr.
Binding - Very common sexual practice And even more common sexual fantasy, 46% of men and 52% of women are dreaming about him. And the restriction of mobility is quite harmless, it is enough to allow yourself (or get such permission from a partner) to stay in a passive role and just enjoy what is happening. The inability to do something actively aggravates the sensations and expands the experience of trust - if, of course, a partner initially deserved trust. What and how to bind to use?
Jute Verop
Rope is the most obvious idea, but also the most difficult in implementation. Use ropes only from natural fibers: synthetic capable of burning the skin. Do not take rough ropes for people with sensitive skin and with already existing irritations, it is better to take a cotton. Do not knit complex nodes, if you are not sure that you can unravel. Always keep the scissors just in case. Watch that between the rope and the body you can easily shove your finger or two, otherwise you will not avoid traces and pain. This is especially true of the ankle and wrists: inept bondage often leads to a continuous loss of sensitivity, and in general this is a frequent source of neurological problems.
Vinyl ribbon.
Ten meters of ribbon, which glues itself to himself, is a great thing to bind anything, from it even a dress or lingerie can be loosened (unfortunately, one-time). Just like with the rope, leave extra space between the ribbon and the body. Take the scissors with round ends, so as not to damage the chance of a partner. Do not try to fix complex figures from an unprepared person - everything is instigated. Just imagine whether to hold out at least ten minutes in this posture. Not? Do not offer a partner. By the way, you can even make a mask on the eye, to the hair, it is also not glued.
Belt transformer
The collaboration of the famous Fetishian sex shop The Stockroom and guitarist Dave Navarro, who played in Red Hot Chili Peppers and Nine Inch Nails. Manually assembled leather belt with steel rings holds a guitar, and if necessary, transformed into a collar and a device for "Hog Thai" - recorded together wrists and ankle. Potential danger - risk of losing tiny keys from mounted locks. Exit - order copies of spare and put them somewhere closer. For fans: the first 500 belts are signed by Navarro personally, and The Stockroom began to deliver to Russia.
Pillow with gag and handcuffs
The leather cylinder cylinder is used like this: go to your back, shove your head under the gag and take it in my mouth, the hands are fixed in handcuffs, let the rest make a partner. The gag is assigned to the belt, which is dismissed, so if you don't like these pieces, there are no problems from it to get rid. Either, on the contrary, dismissed and use the direct appointment separately from the pillow. True, you can't call a budget multifunctional thing, the manufacturer Fleet Ilya creates luxurious sex devices and leather linen of excellent quality, wonderful forms and cosmic rates.
Suspension to the ceiling
A complex device for which the hook is required in the ceiling (the hook is included in the set). If the chandelier has not yet hung and the place has either it was possible to highlight a special room for different interesting devices, secure the hook on the ceiling and hang on it the attached belt with a man. The latter without any locks there, fastened to the velcro, it is easy to choose if necessary. Important: You will not have to hang with the wrists, inside there are special crossbars for which you can stay. And what with a suspended partner to do, solve only you.
Hand retainer to door
Pipedream fetish fantasy brand is the most notable supplier to the Russian market convenient devices for fixing and games in Light BDSM. Their white boxes with desperately funny couples in black and free applied mask stand in every sex shop, and they really have a lot of simple and efficient products. For example, this thing is straps with a manner on one end and thickening on the other. We throw the second end through the door, close it - and voila, you have hanging straps with a writer. Fix the hands of a partner and take off and hide in seconds, if you suddenly get relatives from Volgograd, about whom you have completely forgotten. Before buying, inspect the door: if there is a very big clearance between it and the jacket, the belts will ride.
Universal Lock to Door
Without the "fifty shades of gray" in such a review nowhere. Another retainer for the door with a bunch of useful. First, attached to the door and on top, and below. Secondly, the cuffs are for hands, and for the legs, so if you have always dreamed of a little awesy on a wooden cross, but to put it now, try the remote imitation on the door. Thirdly, the length of the belts is adjustable, so you can hang on the doors of different height. Fourth, everything is dismissed and can be used separately from the door, if you can no longer see it, as well as with other sets to fix the same series.